Expat life myths: the good expat book nobody gave you

Expat life myths: the good expat book nobody gave you

Most expat life myths arrive disguised as kindness. They show up as advice, encouragement, the comments people make when you tell them you’re moving abroad. And they settle into a kind of unwritten book that every expat receives without knowing it. The book...
When language difficulties abroad take over your sense of self

When language difficulties abroad take over your sense of self

You arrived fluent enough to get by, maybe even confident, and then something shifted. Suddenly you are stumbling over words in meetings, laughing a beat too late at jokes, or going quiet at dinner tables where everyone else seems completely at ease. Language...
Loneliness being abroad and the myth of the good expat life

Loneliness being abroad and the myth of the good expat life

You packed your life into boxes, crossed an ocean or two, and still somehow find yourself eating dinner alone, wondering why this adventure feels so quiet. Loneliness being abroad is one of the most common experiences my clients bring into sessions, and one of the...
Borderless identity and belonging everywhere and nowhere

Borderless identity and belonging everywhere and nowhere

There is a particular kind of disorientation that comes from standing in an airport and realizing you feel equally foreign in the country you are flying to and the one you just left. If you have ever felt this, you already understand something about borderless...
10 Most Common Questions Expats Are Asking Today

10 Most Common Questions Expats Are Asking Today

Last week, in a workshop with a team of expat high-achievers, the same questions came up again and again. One by one, people shared the struggles they rarely voice: feeling invisible in a new culture, juggling global career challenges with personal life, wondering if...