Expat life myths: the good expat book nobody gave you

Expat life myths: the good expat book nobody gave you

Most expat life myths arrive disguised as kindness. They show up as advice, encouragement, the comments people make when you tell them you’re moving abroad. And they settle into a kind of unwritten book that every expat receives without knowing it. The book...
When language difficulties abroad take over your sense of self

When language difficulties abroad take over your sense of self

You arrived fluent enough to get by, maybe even confident, and then something shifted. Suddenly you are stumbling over words in meetings, laughing a beat too late at jokes, or going quiet at dinner tables where everyone else seems completely at ease. Language...
Loneliness being abroad and the myth of the good expat life

Loneliness being abroad and the myth of the good expat life

You packed your life into boxes, crossed an ocean or two, and still somehow find yourself eating dinner alone, wondering why this adventure feels so quiet. Loneliness being abroad is one of the most common experiences my clients bring into sessions, and one of the...
5 Psychological factors that make Expats successful

5 Psychological factors that make Expats successful

Every year, thousands of highly qualified professionals relocate abroad full of ambition, curiosity, and career momentum. Some feel energized by the challenge. Others feel destabilized by it. What separates successful expats from those who feel stuck, chronically...
5 Traits of Successful Expat Couples

5 Traits of Successful Expat Couples

International life stretches a relationship in ways few couples anticipate. New country. New systems. New cultural codes.The same partner, operating under completely different pressure. After two decades working as an expat psychologist with high-achieving expatriate...